The most powerful force that’s holding you back from success

self-worth

You won’t want to miss a word today, dear Soulpreneur Superstars.

I want to highlight something very important that every soulpreneur I work with struggles with. It prevents us from the abundance we crave, the success we chase, and the clients we love to work with. I know I struggle with this personally, but it’s only been in the last few years, as I work through personal therapy and get more support in my soul journey, that I realize how it’s impacted my success as a coach and consultant. I know you’ll agree with me that self-worth, or rather, the lack of it, has a big and debilitating impact on your life and shatters the progress of your business. Here’s the thing: Let today be the first day you begin to move through this force and find freedom.

I’m not talking about self-confidence. I tend to think self-confidence comes in response to energy outside ourselves. After all, how often have you pushed yourself to do something and felt good about that effort but then felt the crash of disappointment when that effort hasn’t led to enough ROI, success, clients, or income? We’ve all been there.

Embarking on the entrepreneurship journey is like setting sail into the vast sea of endless possibilities. Yet, too often, the lack of self-worth becomes the anchor that weighs down the dreams of many soulful entrepreneurs. In this transformative journey of self-discovery and personal growth, let’s delve into how embodying your authentic self is the key to unshackling your success.

The Core Culprit: Self-Worth

Imagine your self-worth as the compass guiding your entrepreneurial ship. Without a strong foundation of self-worth, soulpreneurs often find themselves adrift in a sea of self-doubt, unable to navigate the tumultuous waves of business challenges. The core reason many of your fellow soulful entrepreneurs struggle to achieve success is often rooted in the subtle whispers of self-limiting beliefs.

You, dear Soulpreneur, are enough exactly as you are. The journey towards success begins not by changing who you are but by embracing and embodying your authentic self. It’s a realization that dismantles the illusions of inadequacy, allowing the true essence of your being to shine forth.

The Deceptive Dance of Self-Limiting Beliefs

Self-limiting beliefs are the illusions that cast shadows on the brilliance of your potential. When you start listening to the deceptive whispers telling you that you need to be ready to do anything, you unknowingly succumb to a belief that robs you of your worthiness. The truth is, you don’t need to be everything to everyone. Success comes from authenticity, not from conforming to external expectations.

Recognize the self-limiting beliefs that tell you otherwise. The belief that you must be all things to all people is a guise that keeps you from fully stepping into your power. It’s a barrier preventing you from embracing and expressing your uniqueness authentically in your business.

Stepping Powerfully into Self-Worth

The moment you decide to break free from the shackles of self-limiting beliefs is when you step powerfully into self-worth. Authenticity is not just a buzzword; it’s the key that unlocks the doors to success. Here’s how you can make that powerful leap:

1. Trust Your Intuition

Your intuition is a powerful compass, a guide that aligns you with your true path. Trust the whispers of your inner voice; it knows the way. When making decisions for your business, let your intuition be the North Star that leads you through the fog of uncertainty.

2. Embrace Imperfection

Perfection is an illusion that shackles your potential. Understand that embracing imperfection is a testament to your authenticity. Your journey is a work in progress, and the beauty lies in the authenticity of your story. Allow yourself the grace to learn, evolve, and grow.

3. Challenge Self-Limiting Beliefs

Identify the self-limiting beliefs that hold you back. Challenge them with compassion and curiosity. Are they based on truth, or are they mere illusions? By questioning these beliefs, you dismantle the barriers that hinder your self-worth.

4. Align Your Business with Your Values

Success that is not aligned with your values is an empty victory. Ensure that your business reflects your core values. When your actions align with your beliefs, you attract like-minded clients and experience a profound sense of fulfillment.

The Pitfall of Pushing Through

Many soulpreneurs fall into the trap of pushing through their self-doubt, believing that persistence alone will bring success. However, pushing through without addressing the root cause leads to burnout and disappointment. It’s like trying to sail against the tide instead of adjusting your sails to harness the wind.

Instead of pushing through, take a moment to pull back and realign. Understand that success is not solely about hard work; it’s about working smart and authentically. When you align your actions with your true self, the journey becomes more effortless, and success naturally follows.

Nurturing Self-Worth in Business

As a business owner, nurturing self-worth is an ongoing process. Here are some practical tips to help you cultivate a strong sense of self-worth:

1. Daily Affirmations

Start each day with positive affirmations that reinforce your worthiness. Affirmations are powerful tools that reshape your mindset and set a positive tone for the day ahead.

2. Surround Yourself with Support

Build a network of supportive individuals who uplift and encourage you. Share your journey with like-minded entrepreneurs who understand the challenges and joys of the soulful path.

3. Celebrate Milestones, Big and Small

Acknowledge and celebrate your achievements, no matter how small. Each step forward is a testament to your growth and a reminder of your capabilities.

4. Reflect on Your Authenticity

Regularly reflect on your journey and assess if your actions align with your authentic self. When you consciously choose authenticity, you reinforce your self-worth.

Conclusion: Shine Authentically, Dear Soulpreneur Superstar

Dear Soulpreneur Superstar, the journey to success is not a sprint but a marathon of self-discovery. Stop listening to the lies of self-limiting beliefs. You are enough, and your authentic self is your greatest asset in the business realm.

When you shine authentically, you send a powerful message to the universe. You declare that you are worthy, and success becomes a natural extension of your being. Embrace the transformative journey, trust your intuition, challenge the illusions, and align your business with your values.

You are not just a business owner but a soulful entrepreneur on a sacred journey. May your path be illuminated by the light of your authenticity, and may success flow effortlessly as you step powerfully into your self-worth.

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AUTHOR’S NOTE: After writing this post, I was delighted to come across the work of Jamie Kern Lima. I’m about to read her latest book, “Worthy”.  I’ve just ordered it, and from what I can tell, this author is starting the right kind of soulful revolution!! Check out her book, “Worthy”. I’d love to hear how it impacts you and your business.

Erin MacCoy

My greatest joy is shining a light on the strengths and abilities of others, allowing them to move forward with purpose and intention and without hesitation by understanding and embracing who they really are.